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A Non-Minnesotan Request for Help
As you may have heard, we’re in it for the long haul here at the ICU. Due to this becoming our new normal, and needing to try to maintain some
A Blessed Birthday
A couple of days ago, I celebrated the big 3-9. I knew quite a while ago that while this year's aging was bound to be memorable, and my suspicions were
The Emotional Maze
So, there's a lot going on right now. A lot. I've had just about every metaphor for this excessive goings-on tossed in my direction--I've got irons in the fire, balls
My Son is Alive
My son is ALIVE. We've been in the ICU for a month. At this point, I assume that nearly everyone in the unit knows the story of why we're here
Cocktails and Safekeepers
The last few days have been a bit volatile, to say the least, with some of the biggest highs followed by some significant lows. All of these events have been
A Big, Loud Exhale
When I'm supporting someone in a labor, I teach them to take a big inhale through their nose followed by an audible exhale through their mouth at the beginning of
Withdrawal Sets In
My heart is aching tonight...and not because my guy had a bad day. It was quite the opposite, for the most part. We started with a very early morning rise
Delirium in the ICU
Fifteen, going on sixteen days ago, right around this time, I shed some of the only tears that have left my eyes in any large volume since we've been here.
The Sibling Support Group
Without a doubt, these last couple of weeks have been tough on all of us, but I just can’t describe how amazing it is to see my four children together
Vida
Vida. It means “life.” I found this “Vida” sticker on my banana the other day and knew I needed to add it to our ICU decor. The ventilator seemed like
Blessed
Blessed. There are many definitions as to what that word means, subject to personal preference, spiritual or religious context, or slang, and oddly they can be completely opposite, ranging from
The Word of the Day
How was the day? Well, if Giacomo could speak, I’m fairly sure he would turn to one of our favorite apps, the “Word of the Day,” and call out this